Fortunately, not my experience... but while a smart man learns from his mistakes, a wise man learns from the mistakes of others. "Know when to hold 'em, know when to fold 'em, know when to walk away and know when to RUN" and all that.
Dream girl, huh? Look closely at that face. She's pretty, sure, but look at the expression... that is a ticking time bomb of shrieking psych**ic possession destroying hate. This is the first rumble of thunder and sprinkle of rain before the hurricane.