Dude you've been "seeing" her for 11 months?! Jesus tabernack man what are you waiting for?
I've been with my old lady for almost a year and we live together, so I my situation doesn't exactly apply here. I can tell you from my years of gallivanting that you're young, there's tons of chicks out there. The best thing to do about her canceling plans is just back off; see if she plans anything and if she don't then just let it go to hell. If you're going off to college man, you're going to be earning an education in beer and girls fairly soon. ESPECIALLY if you are going to some big university, I met the love of my life at a community college in northern Maine for god sakes... You should meet plenty of girls with just as much open availability as you.
And FYI dude, I don't know where you live, but Sam worked at the local McDonalds before she got her job at the hospital. She never worked more than a 9 hour shift, and she was a shift manager. Sounds a little fishy to me, but who knows. In the end, we can spill all the advice we got til we're blue in the face, but its up to you to decide what you're gonna do.
Best of luck brotha.
PS, screwing is over-rated. After you're with someone for so long, it becomes something you do occasionally but its the finer things in life that are grand. Especially when she talks about kids... Your sex drive will plummet. To base a relationship solely on sex is only a ruse, and you'll eventually figure out that those relationships won't last. Trust me, I was I young buck not so long ago.
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