[MissPriss]

I do, but that doesn't matter. It's if the person that really needs to see and understand the message reads it.

Be right over hun to rub a little vick's on your chest, brew up a wicked batch of chicken noodle (with my own secret ingredient) soup and try to make your life a little better.

[Mooooooooooooooooooo]

My point is, That when you are 16 you don't care what people tell you, you often don't care what your own conscience tells you.


Bashing Spy is like hitting a dim witted puppy...It won't learn anything, and it might grow up to hate you. And we all deserve forgiveness for the things we did when we were kids.

I was worse than spy as a kid...but IRL people just run away and avoid dealing with people like the one that I was. On the web, They confront.


I realizedd that I can't judge the boy, He's far better than I was.

The rest of you should look to your own moral center before you call the kettle black (and white)

[Schultz1]

At 16 I was just starting a part time job as a plumber. My father was my boss.

[Mooooooooooooooooooo]

I'm not one to lie but I was doing pretty well when I was 15 years old actually... Education aside (I was on top of that mountain from the moment I was born an Asian) I've not joined in more fights than I can count in my two hands or done anything illegal (attempted to steal but got caught trying to put it back) or never was I either disrespectful/impolite to anyone... I won't say I did not lie or betray trust for I did that... Numerous times... To those closest to my heart... But I know I never showed any of that... I never let it all out in a manner which was irrational... Self-control was something I learnt myself from when I realised anything I wanted would never be mine unless I worked for it... And working for it was never easy either... There were hurdles upon hurdles... When I say I betrayed repeatedly, I too was betrayed... That did not help... Neither did puberty... Only time which made me truly irrational... Lack of self-control... My flaw... I have worked to repair it all but some damage can never be fixed... Yet I tried... Still do...

Perhaps I was different type of 15 year old in different circumstances but I was doing well, in general, in comparison to the person in question here... My social life was lacking... But I made up for it... Repair & growth... Vital... Understanding yourself... Critical... Controlling yourself to mould yourself into someone you would aspire to be... Invaluable...


Maybe I took this too seriously... I blame the cold... Flowing sinuses puts one in a bad mood... I wonder if anyone will understand what I tried to say here amidst all the ellipses...

I probably would have been a kid just like you. But that combination of teenage rebellion and addiction made me into something I'd rather not face.


All I'm saying is that we all need to think back to the emotions and urges that come with being 16.

[Mooooooooooooooooooo]

At 16 I was just starting a part time job as a plumber. My father was my boss.

Did you and your dad ever get the same fecal matter on yourselves at the same time?


2 plumbers...1 cup.

[Rick69]

I do, but that doesn't matter. It's if the person that really needs to see and understand the message reads it.

Be right over hun to rub a little vick's on your chest, brew up a wicked batch of chicken noodle (with my own secret ingredient) soup and try to make your life a little better.

Honestly, cheers... Only realised now that my post was wholly unnecessary and adds very little, if anything, to what Moo+ conveyed... Can't take any of it back... Don't want to either... But I understand now what Moo+ means to say... I agree with him...


As for the Vicks & Chicken Noodle offer... I would "falcon-dive" into my screen just to soak all that comfy in... I'm pretty sure I used to get high off the smell of Vicks when I was much younger... Or at least feign I have a nasty cough just to smell some more of it... And the chicken noodle soup, despite all the weird "omg samez here; we must be internetz twinz", chicken noodle is absolutely my favourite soup, hot or cold... Pretty much the only soup I will be content to ever have in my life... And it reminds me of a satisfying scene from a movie rather dear to me...:

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(So... How would you feel if you adopted me as your child... I will do anything for Vicks & chicken noodle soup... Combined... )

[MissPriss]

Well I for one knew what and where I was at 16. My "from the old country" parents made sure of that. And they didn't make excuses for me either. Trust me the closest thing I came to being the ideal daughter, was only what I let my parents see. Soooo much more happened behind the scenes. I am only trying to let Spy see that he is responsible for his own actions. And responsible for the good or negative that follows him.

I am soooo tired of hearing how it isn't a young persons fault. And that my friends is why we have too many young people in trouble. 16! Old enough to be legally allowed to live out of your parents home around here. Old enough to know right from wrong. Old enough to CHOSE how they behave and thus that what will determine how people think of them. Spy after all the long winded posts are said and done, at the end of the day, you have to determine if you want others to respect you or can be content with them not wanting to be burdened with you.

You aren't a little toddler that depends on others to make choices for you. You are a young person that needs to start thinking about getting along with others or facing the consequences if you don't. Yep that easy. It's really up to you. If you want to be accepted here, then get on the right track with other members. If you want to keep pushing the limits then off to another site with you. I trust you are smart enough to decide what needs to be done if you want others to get off your ass about who and what you are around here. Nuff said?

[MissPriss]

(So... How would you feel if you adopted me as your child... I will do anything for Vicks & chicken noodle soup... Combined... )

Um er well... lets just say that's one fantasy shot to Hell?

Ahhh...why not. Welcome to Cougar town son! Hey Modick, we just done got ourselves a baby!

[Rick69]

So my "foster-father" is a mere few months older than me...:

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[MissPriss]

Moooo(?) no hard feelings? I understand where you are coming from and I have respect and even agree with much of what you have stated. Guess this is just a subject that I feel greatly about (no NOT you Spy) I get intense about something, post and let it fly, and then feel badly thinking that what I said may of offended the other person. Maybe contribute it to the bipolar or pms. Either one is a great mood swinging agent but together a deadly weapon unleashed on the innocent people of the forums....the horror!!!!

Before the mods kick us out, maybe move this to the off topic thread? Perfect cuz we all agree in our own little way...spy is usually off topic (lol)!